Back to the Learning Annex Blogby Jennifer Firger
A few months ago, I headed to my favorite clothing store and spotted a fabulously perfect black v-neck sweater. It was soft to the touch and fit like a dream. I thought, surely this will go with everything I own and the price is so reasonable! I brought it home and opened my sweater drawer only to realize I had another three just like that one.
According to Debra Berndt, hypnotist, author, and Learning Annex instructor, this is the prime problem with human behavior. We are all drawn to the same thing over and over again. Blame your subconscious mind, which surprisingly gets set in its ways during the first ten years of your life. Repeated clothing purchases can be cute and endearing, but what about those lousy habits that keep you poor, in a career rut, and especially lovelorn? Yeah, those aren’t so cute.
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Debra is best known for rescuing love lives through self-hypnotism. Do you seem to have a thing for married men or those unable to commit? Do your partners continually cheat on you? Do you lose interest in a love interest rather quickly? Are you just not meeting the right one? Using the tools of guided visualization, Debra’s Let Love In program helps recognize crappy patterns that continually sabotage your love life.
I know what you may be imagining right now—some woman dangling a watch in front of your eyes and insisting that you’re getting very, very sleepy. Fortunately, that bunch of hooey isn’t Debra’s bag. But if you’re still skeptical, Debra recommends you “talk to Dr. Freud or Dr. Jung,” since she’s grounded her practice in the most basic ideas of psychology, as well as Eastern philosophy. Years of therapy and a college course in philosophy have taught me that you can’t really argue those big guys. As Confucius once said: “Study the past if you would define the future.”
Stay tuned for a report on my experience at Debra’s Learning Annex workshop, Hypnotize Yourself to Find Your Soulmate.
Tagged With: meeting people, intimacy, love
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