Everyone who desires lasting love needs to know the difference between “attractions of deprivation” and “attractions of inspiration.” This class will teach you how to distinguish between the two, and how to attract relationships that truly inspire you. Attractions of deprivation are incredibly compelling. They draw us in like an undertow, and almost always get us hurt. We always feel we have to do something to win our partner’s love, approval, or care. If you want a future of happiness, then choose an attraction of inspiration. Attractions of inspiration make us feel essentially safe and loved—not anxious and insecure. They have a warmth and an easiness. In these relationships, our challenge is to accept our partner’s caring, not win it. Our partners might challenge us to be better, but at bottom, they love us for who we are.